SteadfellowEarly access

Early access. Ted opens in a few weeks.

Before you text her, talk to Ted.

Ted is an AI coach for men. Tell him what happened with her. He tells you what’s going on, your part in it, and what to say next.

Watch Ted answer. Pick a situation:

TedYour AI coach
  • 277situation guides
  • 5courses
  • 186short lessons
  • 24/7Ted, when you need him

See what Ted does

The real app, on your phone. No download.

  • Ted answering a man whose date went quiet

    Get a straight read

    Tell him what happened. He gives you more than one reading of her, your part in it, and one thing to do today.

  • The tension score under Ted’s answer: 8 out of 10 for his words, 0 for Ted’s example

    Check it before you send it

    Your words get a tension score out of 10. Then Ted shows you a better line, in your voice.

  • Ted playing the girlfriend in a practice conversation

    Practice the hard talk

    Ted plays her for a few lines, so the real conversation isn’t your first try.

  • A Steadfellow guide with lines to leave alone and the one thing to say

    277 free guides

    For the moments that matter: what to say, and what to leave alone.

Built to tell you the truth

  • Tested in the open

    50 hard conversations before launch: 45 passed, 5 partly. Every answer is published, misses included.

    Read the tests
  • Grounded in couples research

    The tension score uses the 4 warning signs that couples research links to breakups.

    The Gottman Institute
  • He won’t just agree with you

    AI chatbots tell people they’re right 49% more often than people do. Ted is built to tell you when you made it worse.

    Stanford, in Science, 2026

Why not just ask ChatGPT?

A general chatbotTed
Tends to agree with youTells you when you made it worse
Writes the message for youHelps you say it in your own words
Answers anythingBuilt for one thing: you and her
Will play along with gamesRefuses games, tracking and pressure

Founding members: 50% off your first year

$44.99 for the year instead of the $89.99 launch price, or $7.49 a month instead of $14.99 for your first 12 months. For the first 200 men on the list.

Missed the 200? Bring 3 friends who join, and the founding price is yours anyway.

Fair questions

When does Ted open?

In a few weeks. Everyone on the list gets an email the day he opens, and founding members get in first.

What exactly is the 50% offer?

The first 200 people who join this list get 50% off their first year: $44.99 for a year instead of $89.99, or $7.49 a month for 12 months instead of $14.99. So does anyone who brings 3 friends who join. One per person. You claim it with the email you joined with, within 30 days of Ted opening.

Do I pay anything now?

No. No card and no commitment. Joining only saves your spot.

Will she know?

Not from us. Your email is never sold or shared, and nothing about you is posted anywhere.

Is Ted a person?

No. Ted is an AI coach, for men 18 and over. He gives coaching, not therapy. If a conversation turns to danger, he stops and points you to real help.

Be first in when Ted opens.

50% off your first year for the first 200 men. No card.

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